Hubby is visiting him tonight - we thought it best that he not be overwhelmed by visitors, and he and hubby are close friends. We'll probably both go to see him when he goes home on the weekend.
And, yes, fans need to keep some of their kinks to themselves. Most of them probably wouldn't appreciate it if some random person from work/school came up and said 'all my friends and I talk about you as an AU version of yourself wearing red knickers or getting all sweaty with your best friend, and then we put the art and stories on line, cool huh?'. SEriously, no. I know it's not precisely the same situation. But really, if the actors go *looking* for this stuff in their free time, having heard about it, they've only themselves to blame. Fans offering it up like rare and refreshing fruit? Not classy, folks.
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Date: 2012-11-15 08:42 am (UTC)And, yes, fans need to keep some of their kinks to themselves. Most of them probably wouldn't appreciate it if some random person from work/school came up and said 'all my friends and I talk about you as an AU version of yourself wearing red knickers or getting all sweaty with your best friend, and then we put the art and stories on line, cool huh?'. SEriously, no. I know it's not precisely the same situation. But really, if the actors go *looking* for this stuff in their free time, having heard about it, they've only themselves to blame. Fans offering it up like rare and refreshing fruit? Not classy, folks.